If two people have a couple of kids, somebody does have to take care of the kids. Somebody does have to cook dinner; somebody does have to do garbage duty. We need to take some time and give some thought, without being angry, to just thinking about what these new structures are going to look like.

Don't take too much credit for your children - or too much blame!

Strive not for perfection..but for lives and loves that matter.

We must...forge partnerships with those around us, and begin to dismantle the myth of solitary perfection.

Rather than seeing the opportunities that feminism created they very easy morph into expectations.

I certainly wouldn't go back and blame feminism, because all that feminism was really trying to do, which was huge, was to create a new set of expectations, a new set of opportunities for women, and they did.

'Maybe' is what gets us into trouble, because I think constantly women are saying I'll try to do it, maybe I'll do it, I'll do it if I can," and then they're feeling guilty when inevitably they can't do everything.