Evaluating the benefits and drawbacks of any relaitonship is your responsibility. You do not have to passively accept what is brought to you. You can choose.

Positive energy is attracted to positive energy.

Smashing heads does not open minds.

Gentleness towards self and others makes life a little lighter.

It's hard to stay committed when our heart isn't in it.

The more you take responsibility for your attitudes, the more you can adjust yourself in a forward thinking manner.

Every goal first started as something in our mind. You have it all within you!