Clothes have special power. I'll always remember the raspberry colored v-necked silk sweater I was wearing on my husband and my first date. If I hadn't been wearing that sweater that night, would any of it have happened?

For me, having it all - if one wants to define it at all - is the magical time when what you want and what you have match up.

As complicated as joint custody is, it allows the delicious contradiction of having children and maintaining the intimacy of life-before-kid s.

One quarter of what you buy will turn out to be mistakes.

There is something fantastic about getting divorced. Everyone should do it to experience the extraordinary sense of freedom after being in marriage jail.

I'm planning to give up worrying. I want to, but I'm worried I won't be able to.

As for superpower: I wish I could eat a million pastries and not gain weight. I wish I were Pastry Woman.