Why should neurotic, selfish, immature people suddenly become angels when they fall in love ... ?
Denis de RougemontWhat stirs lyrical poets to their finest flights is neither the delight of the senses nor the fruitful contentment of the settled couple; not the satisfaction of love, but its passion. And passion means suffering.
Denis de RougemontRomance only comes into existence where love is fatal, frowned upon and doomed by life itself.
Denis de RougemontPassion and marriage are essentially irreconcilable. Their origins and their ends make them mutually exclusive. Their co-existence in our midst constantly raises insoluble problems, and the strife thereby engendered constitutes a persistent danger for every one of our social safeguards.
Denis de Rougemont