Make a list of your current wants and desires. Next to each, put down what benefit or payoff there would be when you achieve it. Look at this list often throughout the day and before retiring at night.

The greatest gifts you can give your children are the roots of responsibility and the wings of independence.

Losers make promises they often break. Winners make commitments they always keep.

Virtually nothing on earth can stop a person with a positive attitude who has his goals clearly in sight.

Winners are people with definite purpose in life.

The confidence you need is belief in your potential. If you see world-class potential in yourself, you'll put in the effort. If you don't see the potential, you won't put in the effort and you'll wait for the performance, and the performance always follows the belief in self.

The easiest thing is to make sure you feel happy and satisfied in this moment. Setting long term goals is much more effort taking, but at the same time much more fulfilling.