However self-sufficient we may fancy ourselves, we exist only in relation - to our friend, family, and life partners; to those we teach and mentor; to our coworkers, neighbors, strangers; and even to forces we cannot fully conceive of, let alone define. In many ways, we are our relationships.

All ethical people strive to choose "right" over "easy" when confronted by situations that force them to choose one or the other.

Power in the hands of the reformer is no less potentially corrupting than in the hands of the oppressor.

Slavery is, as an example of what white America has done, a constant reminder of what white America might do.

Black people are the magical faces at the bottom of society's well. Even the poorest whites, those who must live their lives only a few levels above, gain their self-esteem by gazing down on us. Surely, they must know that their deliverance depends on letting down their ropes. Only by working together is escape possible. Over time, many reach out, but most simply watch, mesmerized into maintaining their unspoken commitment to keeping us where we are, at whatever cost to them or to us (Bell).

The challenge throughout has been to tell what I view as the truth about racism without causing disabling despair.

Courage is a finite resource, it is exhausted by the terrors we face.