Forgiving is a gift to the forgiver as well as to the perpetrator.

Let girls be girls and not brides

I would refuse to go to a homophobic heaven.

To forgive is not just to be altruistic.

Retributive justice is one that says clobber him or clobber her because they clobbered me. So it emphasizes punishment.

When we look squarely at injustice and get involved, we actually feel less pain, not more, because we overcome the gnawing guilt and despair that festers under our numbness. We clean the wound - our own and others' - and it can finally heal.

Ubuntu tells us that we can create a more peaceful world by striving for goodness in each moment, wherever we are.