We get most upset with those we love because they are close to us and we know that they are aware of our weaknesses. . . If only we could learn to live with our inadequacies, our frailties, our vulnerabilities, we would not need to try so hard to push away those who really know us.

I think it is a good exercise to ask oneself, "How would I have wanted to be treated?"

Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.

Because forgiveness is like this: a room can be dank because you have closed the windows, you've closed the curtains. But the sun is shining outside, and the air is fresh outside. In order to get that fresh air, you have to get up and open the window and draw the curtains apart.

An abusive relationship should be easy to identify though often one of the most difficult to end.

Every situation of justice is an occasion where someone is being humiliated and they want to restore their dignity. They think, "I am a human being and I may not be able to defeat these people or destroy them, but I will hit out at them, because I am not a thing, I am human."

I'd rather go to hell than worship a homophobic God.