Having looked the past in the eye, having asked for forgiveness and having made amends, let us shut the door on the pastโnot in order to forget it but in order not to allow it to imprison us.
Desmond TutuTo forgive is indeed the best form of self-interest since anger, resentment, and revenge are corrosive of that summum bonum, the greatest good.
Desmond TutuGod says "This is what I would love you to be, but I am not going to constrain you. I want it to be your choice." And it is a fantastic thing because even at the moment when I am making the choice to reject God, I would depend from moment to moment, you know that beautiful image of God creating by breathing God's breath into this lump of clay, making it a human being.
Desmond Tutu