True forgiveness deals with the past, all of the past, to make the future possible. We cannot go on nursing grudges even vicariously for those who cannot speak for themselves any longer. We have to accept that we do what we do for generations past, present and yet to come. That is what makes a community a community or a people a people-for better or for worse.

An abusive relationship should be easy to identify though often one of the most difficult to end.

I have voted for the ANC, but I would very sadly not be able to vote for them after the way things have gone.

There are things that must evoke our anger to show we care. It is what we do with that anger. If we direct that energy we can use it positively or destructively.

We inhabit a universe that is characterized by diversity.

I have a lot of time for young people.

All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others