One of the ways of helping to destroy a people is to tell them they don't have a history that they have no roots.
Desmond TutuYou think sometimes that maybe if the person who hurt you is clobbered you will feel a little better. But it actually doesn't.
Desmond TutuForgiveness does not mean condoning what has been done. Forgiving means abandoning your right to pay back the perpetrator in his own coin.
Desmond Tutu