To love someone enough to let them go, you had to let them go forever or you did not love them that much.
Diana Wynne JonesSlender Youth. A tour companion who may be either a lost prince or a girl/princess in disguise. In the latter case it is tactful to pretend you think she is a boy. She/he will be ignorant, hasty and shy, and will need hauling out of trouble quite a lot. But she/he will grow up in the course of the Tour. In fact she/he will be the only Companion who will change in any way. Quite often, she/he will soon exhibit a very useful talent for magic and end up by hauling everyone else out of trouble. But this will not be until midway through your second brochure.
Diana Wynne JonesWhen have you looked?" said Sophie. "Oh, how your rears flap and your long nose twitches", Howl croaked.
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