Divorce is war and unfortunately, some parents live in constant entanglements with their ex-spouses and they shift aside the issues that post-divorce can leave on the shoulders of their children.
To me, the difference between a good marriage and a great marriage is conviction.
Divorce can leave children feeling like defectors.
Life is too short not to live in peace.
Children live what they learn.
Part of knowing ourselves is also being able to accept who we are and to value ourselves regardless of our flaws. Accepting who we are allows us to value our worth without conditions or reservations.