Simply allow your thoughts and experiences to come and go, without ever grasping at them.
Dilgo Khyentse RinpocheTo wish happiness for others, even for those who want to do us harm, is the source of consummate happiness.
Dilgo Khyentse RinpocheSentient beings, self and others, enemies and dear ones-all are made by thoughts. It is like seeing a rope and mistaking it for a snake. When we think that the rope is a snake, we are scared, but once we see that we are looking at a rope, our fear dissipates. We have been deluded by our thoughts. Likewise, mentally fabricating self and others, we generate attachment and aversion.
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