It is in playing, and perhaps only in playing, that the child is free to be creative.
Donald Woods WinnicottCreativity consists in maintaining a key aspect of the experience of childhood throughout one's life: the capacity to create and recreate the world. Creativity is the omnipotence of the child's mind.
Donald Woods WinnicottThe fact that grief takes so long to resolve is not a sign of inadequacy, but betokens depth of soul.
Donald Woods WinnicottHowever, it can't be helped; mothers, if they do their job properly, are the representatives of the hard, demanding world and it is they who gradually introduce reality which is so often the enemy of impulse. There is anger with mother and hatred is somewhere even when there is absolutely no doubt of love that is mixed with adoration.
Donald Woods Winnicott