When I became political and Communist, it was because they were the only people I had ever met who fought the color bar in their lives.
Doris Lessingif you understand something, you don't forgive it, you are the thing itself: forgiveness is for what you don't understand.
Doris LessingI'm going to make the obvious point that maybe the word neurotic means the condition of being highly conscious and developed. The essence of neurosis is conflict. But the essence of living now, fully, not blocking off to what goes on, is conflict. In fact I've reached the stage where I look at people and say - he or she, they are whole at all because they've chosen to block off at this stage or that. People stay sane by blocking off, by limiting themselves.
Doris Lessing