if you understand something, you don't forgive it, you are the thing itself: forgiveness is for what you don't understand.
Doris LessingIdeally, what should be said to every child, repeatedly, throughout his or her school life is something like this: "You are in the process of being indoctrinated. We have not yet evolved a system of education that is not a system of indoctrination. We are sorry, but it is the best we can do."
Doris Lessing