It is terrible to destroy a person's picture of himself in the interests of truth or some other abstraction.
Doris LessingMen are restless, adventurous. Women are conservative - despite what current ideology says.
Doris LessingBut it isn't only the terror everywhere, and the fear of being conscious of it, that freezes people. It's more than that. People know they are in a society dead or dying. They are refusing emotion because at the end of very emotion are property, money, power. They work and despise their work, and so freeze themselves. They love but know that it's a half- love or a twisted love, and so they freeze themselves.
Doris Lessing