There is only one real sin and that is to persuade oneself that the second best is anything but second best.
Doris Lessing...We try to have things both ways. Weโve always refused to live by the book and the rule; but then why start worrying because the world doesnโt treat us by rule?
Doris LessingWhat women will say to other women grumbling in their kitchens and complaining and gossiping or what they make clear in their masochism is often the last thing they will say aloud - a man may overhear. Women are the cowards they are because they have been semi-slaves for so long.
Doris Lessing