If I could have found what I needed at thirteen, I would not have lost so much of my life chasing vindication or death. Give some child, some thirteen-year old, the hope of the remade life. Tell the truth. Write the story that you were always afraid to tell. I swear to you there is magic in it.

I did not begin with craft, I began with strong feelings and worked toward craft.

I have a terrible memory.

Gravy is the simplest, tastiest, most memory-laden dish I know how to make: a little flour, salt and pepper, crispy bits of whatever meat anchored the meal, a couple of cups of water or milk and slow stirring to break up lumps.

Fiction is a piece of truth that turns lies to meaning.

Why write stories? To join the conversation.

I'll tell you the secret. When you begin with a character, you want to begin by creating a villain.