We certainly can try to grow in love, and it is good practice, this giving what we've got, whether it is a cup of coffee or money to pay the grocery bill.
You will know your vocation by the joy that it brings you. You will know. You will know when it's right.
My strength returns to me with my cup of coffee and the reading of the psalms.
Communities are made up of the unlovable as well as the lovable.
If you feed the poor, you're a saint. If you ask why they're poor, you're a Communist.
When it comes down to it, even on the natural plane, it is much happier and more enlivening to love than to be loved.