To discover your real questions, simply take a time-out. Stop looking ahead of yourself at where youโre going or backward at where youโve been. When you do stop, thereโs a sense of going nowhere. Thereโs a sense of gap, which is a tremendous relief. You can simply breathe and be who you are.
Dzogchen Ponlop RinpocheSometimes we are too polite with our suffering and allow it to dominate our life.
Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche