You need to get really clear about whether this is your inner voice or just a desire that you have.
I don't focus outside of myself to my guides. I always focus inside.
If we are guided to give up our possessions, it will be a positive thing for us.
I always turn to my intuition for personal guidance.
Most souls attend their funerals and have some feelings about them, but it's such an individual event. Some souls don't care what happens to their physical bodies. They see the funeral as a ritual for the living so they don't always attend.
The real freedom comes to us when we can learn to go inside and connect with that voice. Then, we're not relying on outsiders.