Don't Seek Happiness. If you seek it, you won't find it, because seeking is the antithesis of happiness
Eckhart TolleA genuine relationship is one that is not dominated by the ego with its image-making and self-seeking. In a genuine relationship, there is an outward flow of open, alert attention toward the other person in which there is no wanting whatsoever.
Eckhart TolleTo end the misery that has afflicted the human condition for thousands of years, you have to start with yourself and take responsibility for you inner state at any given moment. That means now
Eckhart TolleLiving up to an image that you have of yourself or that other people have of you is inauthentic living.
Eckhart Tolle