Win or lose, everybody gets what they want out of the market. Some people seem to like to lose, so they win by losing money.
Losing a position is aggravating, whereas losing your nerve is devastating.
If you can't take a small loss, sooner or later you will take the mother of all losses.
Trends become more apparent as you step further away from the chart.
To avoid whipsaw losses, stop trading.
A losing trader can do little to transform himself into a winning trader. A losing trader is not going to want to transform himself. That's the kind of thing winning traders do.