History is said to be written by the victors. Fiction, by contrast, is largely the work of injured bystanders.
Edna O'BrienWe all leave one another. We die, we change - it's mostly change - we outgrow our best friends; but even if I do leave you, I will have passed on to you something of myself; you will be a different person because of knowing me; it's inescapable.
Edna O'Brien