Sometimes we want things we were not meant to have. Because he loves us, the Father says no. Faith trusts that no. Faith is willing not to have what God is not willing to give. Furthermore, faith does not insist upon an explanation. It is enough to know His promises to give what is good-he knows so much more about us than we do.

One does not surrender a life in an instant. That which is lifelong can only be surrendered in a lifetime.

There is something that pretends to be christianity which is mostly mood. The measure of its faith is merely the measure of its feeling.

What I ought to do and what I feel like doing are seldom the same thing.

Freedom begins way back. It begins not with doing what you want but with doing what you ought - that is, with discipline.

Our natural reason looks at marriage and turns up its nose and says, Alas! Must I rock the baby? wash its diapers? make its bed? smell its stench? stay at nights with it? take care of it when it cries? heal its rashes and sores? and on top of that care for my spouse, provide labor at my trade, take care of this and take care of that? do this and do that? and endure this and endure that? Why should I make such a prisoner of myself?

If you are married, then accept that. Accept the husband that God has given you. If you are single, accept your singleness and take it as if today was the last day of your life. Don't be looking constantly to the future.