Holiness has never been the driving force of the majority. It is, however, mandatory for anyone who wants to enter the kingdom.
The secret is Christ in me, not me in a different set of circumstances.
Are you afraid? Remember the "fear nots" of the Bible.
One does not surrender a life in an instant. That which is lifelong can only be surrendered in a lifetime.
Faith does not eliminate questions. But faith knows where to take them.
The will of God is never exactly what you expect it to be. It may seem to be much worse, but in the end it's going to be a lot better and a lot bigger.