Meetings that do not come off keep a character of their own. They stay as they were projected.
Elizabeth BowenProust has pointed out that the predisposition to love creates its own objects; is this not also true of fear?
Elizabeth BowenShe had one of those charming faces which, according to the angle from which you see them, look either melancholy or impertinent. Her eyes were grey; her trick of narrowing them made her seem to reflect, the greater part of the time, in the dusk of her second thoughts. With that mood, that touch of arriere pensee, went an uncertain, speaking set of lips.
Elizabeth BowenThere's something so showy about desperation, it takes hard wits to see it's a grandiose form of funk.
Elizabeth BowenA novel which survives, which withstands and outlives time, does do something more than merely survive. It does not stand still. It accumulates round itself the understanding of all these persons who bring to it something of their own. It acquires associations, it becomes a form of experience in itself, so that two people who meet can often make friends, find an approach to each other, because of this one great common experience they have had.
Elizabeth Bowen