One did not alter lives and simply walk away from the damage.
Model the qualities that you want your children to show to each other.
Let every hindrance to joy become the soil out of which joy blossoms.
Little choices determine habit; Habit carves and molds character. Which makes the big decisions.
When we don't understand and don't agree with the way life has gone, we are to bow before God and once again confess that we can't understand His wisdom. In faith, we are to accept His wisdom, His Word, and His workings, trusting in Him and obeying His commands.
I find it both fascinating and disconcerting when I discover yet another person who believes that writing can't be taught. Frankly, I don't understand this point of view