Destiny, I feel, is also a relationship - a play between divine grace and willful self-effort.
Elizabeth GilbertIn desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place.
Elizabeth GilbertLet me ask you something, in all the years that you have undressed in front of a gentleman has he ever asked you to leave? Has he ever walked out and left? No? Itโs because he doesnโt care! Heโs in a room with a naked girl, he just won the lottery
Elizabeth GilbertI never wanted to be the person that waited for a stranger to come to town - I wanted to be the stranger!
Elizabeth GilbertShe followed the pleasure where it led. She had no weight, no name, no thoughts, no history. Then came a burst of phosphorescence, as though a firework had discharged behind her eyes, and it was over. She felt quiet and warm. For the first conscious moment of her life, her mind was free from wonder, free from worry, free from work or puzzlement. Then, from the middle of that marvelous furred stillness, a thought took shape, took hold, took over. I shall have to do this again.
Elizabeth Gilbert