We all have memories that are malleable and susceptible to being contaminated or supplemented in some way.
Elizabeth LoftusMy work has made me tolerant of memory mistakes by family and friends. You don't have to call them lies. I think we could be generous and say maybe this is a false memory.
Elizabeth LoftusWhen we remember something, we're taking bits and pieces of experience - sometimes from different times and places - and bringing it all together to construct what might feel like a recollection but is actually a construction. The process of calling it into conscious awareness can change it, and now you're storing something that's different. We all do this, for example, by inadvertently adopting a story we've heard.
Elizabeth LoftusWithout independent corroboration, little can be done to tell a false memory from a true one.
Elizabeth Loftus