My father was an academic, an eccentric. He was a lecturer.
It's peaceful for people to know how their lives are going to be, pretty much.
I've got my private life - that's sacred - and I didn't have that before.
I'm someone who's done the opposite of whatever the received wisdom is, to keep your career going into your 50s.
My job now is to work hard and learn all I can.
It's very tough when two creative people are together.