I like it that order exists somewhere even if it shatters near me.
No matter what I do, no matter how predictable I try to make my life, it will not be any more predictable than the rest of the world. Which is chaotic.
Now my mother, interestingly enough, was not a feminist in her own mind.
My first degree came years before my second. I had wanted to be a physicist, but I flunked calculus.
Hard to be a physics major at Rice University if you have flunked calculus.
One thing nobody can do better than you is be you.