One of the reasons we experience so much difficulty with our gifts is that parents have thought their chief function in life is to be feeding, clothing and educating the young. However, their really important ministry is to listen to their children and enable them to uncover the special blueprint that is theirs.
Elizabeth O'ConnorThe spiritual law at the core of our being requires that we reach out. We are fulfilled to the extent that we live in relationships.
Elizabeth O'ConnorBecause our gifts carry us out into the world and make us participants in life, the uncovering of them is one of the most important tasks confronting any one of us.
Elizabeth O'ConnorStrangely enough we strengthen love in ourselves when we raise into consciousness the shadow side of our lives. Conversely, when we keep negative feelings out of sight, they smother the love that seems to lie deeper and closer to the real self. This is probably why there is so much pain in not loving. The life that is not able to express the love which is so integral to it grows deformed.
Elizabeth O'Connor