I always find something in common with my protagonist, particularly when I write in the first person.
Emily GiffinThe whole "misery loves company" thing never applies more than when you're breaking up. The thought that the other person is doing fine is simply too much to bear.
Emily GiffinFor true downtime, I enjoy going for light runs, having drinks with friends and going to the movies with my husband.
Emily GiffinYou can't quantify love, and if you try, you can end up focusing on misleading factors. Stuff that really has more to do with personality-the fact that some people are simply more expressive or emotional or needy in a relationship. But beyond such smokescreens, the answer is there. Love is seldom-almost never-an even proposition.
Emily Giffin