I still think I love him more. It's one of those things you never know for certain because there's no way to enter all the relationship data in a computer and have it spit out a definitive answer. You can't quantify love, and if you try, you wind up focusing on misleading factors.

For true downtime, I enjoy going for light runs, having drinks with friends and going to the movies with my husband.

Life is about the gray areas. Things are seldom black and white, even when we wish they were and think they should be, and I like exploring this nuanced terrain.

No, scratch the word "career." Careers are for people who wish to advance. I only want to survive, draw a paycheck.

Anything worthwhile is tough.

I miss him in so many ways, but right now I miss him in the way you always miss someone when you're single among a room full of couples.

I try to be true to the characters that I've created and sometimes I disagree with them, but their opinions about the story and the characters really matter to me.