If men don’t have to be aggressive in order to be accepted, women won’t feel compelled to be submissive. If men don’t have to control, women won’t have to be controlled.

We really damage our own confidence when we put ourselves down, so I try not to.

I threw my 20th birthday party at Brown, and I didn't even have to say to anyone not to put pictures on Facebook. Not a single picture went up. That was when I knew I'd found a solid group of friends, and I felt like I belonged.

I like Valentino a lot - they never use actresses in their campaigns.

If I've learned anything, it's really just to stop trying to find answers and certainties.

I'm going to do what I want to do. I'm going to be who I really am. I'm going to figure out what that is.

When I started dating I had this kind of Romeo and Juliet, fateful, romantic idea about love. It was almost that you were a victim - that there was a lot of pain involved and that was how it should be.