Any person capable of angering you becomes your master; he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him.
EpictetusIn life our first job is this, to divide and distinguish things into two categories: externals I cannot control, but the choices I make with regard to them I do control. Where will I find good and bad? In me, in my choices.
EpictetusIf your heart is quite set upon a crown, make and put on one of roses, for it will make the prettier appearance.
Epictetus