Know you not that a good man does nothing for appearance sake, but for the sake of having done right?
EpictetusFrom now on practice saying to everything that appears unpleasant: You are merely an appearance and NOT what you appear to be.
EpictetusLet death and exile, and all other things which appear terrible be daily before your eyes, but chiefly death, and you win never entertain any abject thought, nor too eagerly covet anything.
Epictetus