What disturbs and alarms man are not the things, but his opinions and fancies about the things.
EpictetusNature hath given men one tongue but two ears, that we may hear from others twice as much as we speak.
EpictetusWhat is a good person? One who achieves tranquillity by having formed the habit of asking on every occasion, "what is the right thing to do now?"
Epictetus