Don't demand or expect that events happen as you would wish them do. Accept events as they actually happen. That way, peace is possible.
EpictetusWhen something happens, the only thing in your power is your attitude toward it. It is not the things that disturb us, but our interpretation of their significance. Things and people are not what we wish them to be nor are they what they seem to be. They are what they are.
Epictetus