It is better to advise than upbraid, for the one corrects the erring; the other only convicts them.
EpictetusWhat disturbs and alarms man are not the things, but his opinions and fancies about the things.
EpictetusWe can't control the impressions others form about us, and the effort to do so only debases our character.
EpictetusWhoever then wishes to be free, let him neither wish for anything nor avoid anything which depends on others: if he does not observe this rule, he must be a slave.
Epictetus