If someone irritates you, it is only your own response that is irritating you. Therefore, when anyone seems to be provoking you, remember that it is only your judgment of the incident that provokes you. -
EpictetusOn the occasion of every accident that befalls you, remember to turn to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use.
EpictetusGive me by all means the shorter and nobler life, instead of one that is longer but of less account!
EpictetusHappiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle: Some things are within our control, and some things are not.
Epictetus