If you think you control things that are in the control of others, you will lament. You will be disturbed and you will blame both gods and men.
EpictetusThe key is to keep company only with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best.
EpictetusWhen men are unhappy, they do not imagine they can ever cease to be so; and when some calamity has fallen on them, they do not see how they can get rid of it. Nevertheless, both arrive; and the gods have ordered it so, in the end men seek it from the gods
Epictetus