Suffering arises from trying to control what is uncontrollable, or from neglecting what is within our power.
EpictetusBe free from grief not through insensibility like the irrational animals, nor through want of thought like the foolish, but like a man of virtue by having reason as the consolation of grief.
EpictetusIf thy brother wrongs thee, remember not so much his wrong-doing, but more than ever that he is thy brother.
EpictetusNature hath given men one tongue but two ears, that we may hear from others twice as much as we speak.
Epictetus