If you think you control things that are in the control of others, you will lament. You will be disturbed and you will blame both gods and men.
EpictetusWe can't control the impressions others form about us, and the effort to do so only debases our character.
EpictetusIt is difficulties that show what men are. For the future, in case of any difficulty, remember that God, like a gymnastic trainer, has pitted you against a rough antagonist. For what end? That you may be an Olympic conqueror; and this cannot be without toil.
Epictetus