It is better to advise than upbraid, for the one corrects the erring; the other only convicts them.
EpictetusDonโt consent to be hurt and you wonโt be hurt โ this is a choice over which you have control
Epictetus-โฆ.when things seem to have reached that stage, merely say โI wonโt play any longerโ, and take your departure; but if you stay, stop lamenting.
Epictetus