The self-despisers are less intent on their own increase than on the diminution of others. Where self-esteem is unobtainable, envy takes the place of greed.
Eric HofferThere is no doubt that in exchanging a self-centered for a selfless life we gain enormously in self-esteem. The vanity of the selfless, even those who practice utmost humility, is boundless.
Eric HofferWe probably have a greater love for those we support than for those who support us. Our vanity carries more weight than our self-interest.
Eric Hoffer