best way to deal with fear is to face the nightmare!

Physical attraction was about aesthetics, not sexual performance, not mental stimulation. Without a mental connection, a remarkable sexual performance yielded no lifelong guarantees. It was only lust. And lust was not love.

not keeping a promise is the same as lying!

Resentment makes anything possible.

i can become a new woman every day until i like the woman i become, then i can become her for a while, if not forever!

safety and love are both illusions!

we shed the skins of who we used to be!