A man assumes that a woman's refusal is just part of a game. Or, at any rate, a lot of men assume that. When a man says no, it's no. When a woman says no, it's yes, or at least maybe. There is even a joke to that effect. And little by little, women begin to believe in this view of themselves.
Erica JongI know some good marriages-marriages where both people are just trying to get through their days by helping each other, being good to each other.
Erica JongIt's only when you're forbidden to talk about the future that you suddenly realize how much the future normally occupies the present.
Erica Jong