Ambivalence is a wonderful tune to dance to. It has a rhythm all its own.

My reaction to porno films is as follows: After the first ten minutes, I want to go home and screw. After the first twenty minutes, I never want to screw again as long as I live.

Beware of the man who praises women's liberation; he is about to quit his job.

As women got little crumbs of power, men began to act paranoid - as if we'd disabled them utterly. Do all women have to keep silent for men to speak? Do all women have to be legless for men to walk?

She was mine and not-mine all at once. She was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen and the most terrifying.

perfectionism is the enemy of art. Since art is essentially divine play, not dogged work, it often happens that as one becomes more professionally driven one also becomes less capriciously playful.

The trick is not how much pain you feel - but how much joy you feel